My wife and I had a argument about proof I could get about her having affairs Her mother then asked if i had proof so i said yes and that my friend knew about the affairs she had She then was climbing up the roof of the house Her father was standing on a ladder on the side of the house to get to the roof when the ladder fell backwards and he landed on his back and turned blue I tried shouting to my wife to tell her to come help because her dad had fallen over and was turning blue But i could not shout or scream for her I went to assist him and he was blue in the face but had a cigarette in his mouth so i took the cigarette out his mouth and turned him on his side