Its like i was telling my mother that there are people coming to ask me for a marriage and she replied saying atlast she can also be happy i told her that there are the real xhosa people and i did not look keen about them being xhosa then i was preparing to go to our neighbour they had a ceremenony but i could not find my traditional dress and i ended up wearing a jean but i was not happy because i wanted my dress and i woke up while i was busy looking for a top