My husband went down on one knee and proposed to me After my mother learnt that I was given a ring she asked my husband if we were virgins and wanted to start havibg sex now She went on to tell my husband that she knows his plan is to take me away but I am not going to Nigeria Soon after that I was in a bedroom with my two uncles arguing with the older uncle as he was going on about how he doesn t want me to be with my husband because his of a different nationality from us and does not speak the same language and I defended my husband saying that his here for me and not anyone else and he loves our family and is looking forward to going to my paternal home and meeting all other family members and blending in with them The argument went outside and then my female cousin came along and that when I walked away from the argument and as we were walking back into the house my cousin asked if she could see my ring When looked at my ring and I noticed it had started changing and becoming smaller almost as if stepping outside affected it so I was too ashamed to show her the ring as I already thought the ring was fake