I was in my younger sisters house and our kids were playing outsid and the neighbor was moving out of the complex and she gave these kids some food the dishes up in their hands it was cabbage and meat we moved in that house and it was my friend s party and people were wearing traditional clothes all of a sudden the party moved to an open space near the shop s and near my grandparents house my uncle gave me and my friend chairs to sit outside and my cousin s were setting in the yard I found myself in our church in mamelodi and all my aunts were there drinking alcohol and my sister said to me and her friend in the party I didn t give them a cake and the cake was there in the church and we wanted to cut it but is was rotten