We are at a gathering at my grandfathers house who passed away so im in the bathroom i find tbat someone did not flush theny cousin asks through the window if they flushed i say no she comes in then gives me 100 rand to flush with then in the passage i meet up with my cousin and my moms aunt then they are talking about how many clothes my cousin should iron then i pass go to the kitchen turns out that food is finshed and i want to dish up for my husband so i take meat from other peoples plated and prepare to dish up for my husband im also packing up to qash the dishes