Me and my husband was in a shop looking for a loan we urgently need money i saw him taking a phone card from the one woman that looked at my phone she blocked my phone we went home and i got visitors he went to the bar and i am not happy because he is an alcoholic he talked to the bar tender that is a famous comedian i went to get him there at the bar at home he urinate in a glass bowl and there was blood in his urine he didn t care he pulled his t-shirt up and i could see blue marks on his body and there came thick blood out of it someone must have hit him at the bar husband gave me a phone that he stole but then i saw that he still have my old phone also i was angry and disappointed in him All he can say is that everything will come right i must trust him and as he says the a black man came toe my house and ask if i can watch over his daughter he gave me 100 rand but said i must give him change i only had to watch over her for 3 hours i said that i ask 10 rand per hour and that will be 30 rand he had a lot of money in his hands and his hands was also full of baggage s that he hold i helped him to the car and gave his money back accept the 30 rand i always try to be honest my husband then wanted the money for liquor and i didn t want to give it to him because we are in need of money for rent and electricity and he follows me all over and make promises that he will fix everything but he need the money that i have he need to drink liquor now